The Brighter side

Some pain can never be taken away. It is always there, tucked away until something similar to that pain or situation comes up. Sometimes its seeing what you used to have but is no longer there. The pain is almost unbearable and at the same time you feel selfish or ashamed for even thinking about it because you think to yourself "i should be happy with what i have not what i don't". It can get to the point where it just rules your life. where you are never happy never truly satisfied because you haven't been able to move on. The thing is to look at the brighter side. You have gained knowledge about that situation and different ways to handle it, or you can be prepared to help others who have been through the same situation.You can share with them, what you went through and ways to help them get through it without giving up. You are also more guarded as well that way it won't hurt as much if it happens again.
You can't let it rule you forever once you let it go, you will feel free and energized ready to face the world! The pain is still there but it won't gain control of you. You can still make it through, Be strong what was done is done and can't be changed. The past is meant to stay in the past don't let it become your present.
"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me"